Intimacy

August 13, 2026 3 mins

What Should I Do if My Husband Neglects My Needs?

Answered by Shaykh Muhammad Carr Question My husband spends most of his time alone, either playing games or watching television. He provides for me financially, but he ignores my emotional, physical, and mental needs. We have been married for four years, yet he has never considered my feelings or desires. Whenever I express how I […]
August 7, 2026 8 mins

What Should I Do if My Husband Insults My Appearance?

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani Question We married only three months ago, and for all three months, I have heard from him that I am old, ugly, and do not meet his expectations. I am three and a half years older than him, and it is a cross-cultural marriage, so I do not look like […]
July 14, 2026 7 mins

Is It Permissible for Spouses to Be Naked Together?

Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question It is permitted, though disliked according to some, for spouses to be completely naked during intimacy. What, then, is the ruling if they are completely naked with no intimacy and no need? There is technically no nakedness (awra) between them, yet the stronger view holds that one must cover […]
July 8, 2026 4 mins

Does Oral Sex during a Ramadan Fast Require an Expiation (Kaffara)?

Answered by Shaykh Isrhaad Sedick Question My friend engaged in unlawful sexual activity during Ramadan, but there was no intercourse. The act was oral, and she swallowed. Does she owe the kaffara, or is sincere tawba enough? Answer In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate. No kaffara is required. In the Shafi’i […]
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