Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How should I handle my father’s anger and accusations when I am unable to help my uncle and aunt, given that they misrepresent my refusal to help? Answer Thank you for your question. I empathize with the frustration of being misrepresented, and I pray that you find patience, open […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Would it be wrong to expect my wife and children to decline to stay overnight at my in-laws’ home if I am not welcome to stay? Answer Thank you for your question. They absolutely should not sleep there if you are not welcome, as the harmony of your family […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I help my older brother, who isolates himself, refuses treatment for depression, and is aggressive toward our family? He uses religion to manipulate my parents, who feel guilty about his past. He doesn’t work or study and only stays with us for his needs. He refuses advice […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I help my husband soften his heart toward my family without directly addressing the issue, as he sees it as siding with them? I make dua, but I see no change. Answer Thank you for your question. I pray that you can ease the tension between your […]