FILED UNDER: ANS Halal and Haram, ANS Hanafi Fiqh, ANS Maliki Fiqh, ANS Marriage, ANS Marriage and Divorce, ANS Marriage and Divorce (maliki-fiqh), ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh, ANS Sunna, ANSWERS (Parent of ANS blog), Commanding the Right and Forbidding the Wrong, Knowledge
TAGGED WITH:: conjugal rights, Marital Intimacy, marital problems, marital relations, neglect of spouse
/by YusufShaykh Jamir Meah clarifies certain aspects of a previous answer on a wife’s conjugal rights. I am writing to inquire a further look at this portion from a previous answer: What Does Islam Say About the Neglect of the Wife’s Sexual Rights? Islam already takes into account the fact that a woman may have times […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Marriage, ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: cancelling a conditional divorce, divorce in anger, doubts about divorce, intending divorce, utterance of divorce
/by YusufShaykh Abdurragmaan Khan answers questions about uncertainty concerning marriage and divorce. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa baraktuh. I need help. Sometimes I feel very sad. My husband and I have argued many times throughout our marriage and sometimes I wonder if we are still husband and wife. He has even joked about a conditional […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Adab, ANS Family Ties, ANS Halal and Haram, ANS Hanafi Fiqh, ANS Marriage, ANS Marriage and Divorce, ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Parents, ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: marriage, marriage in secret, parents approval, parents' consent, secret marriage
/by YusufUstadh Salman Younas answers a question about the validity and rightness of wanting to marry someone without the parents’ knowledge and consent. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. I love someone and I want that relationship becomes halal. Right now I want to marry her without telling anyone just to make it halal, […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Hanafi Fiqh, ANS Maliki Fiqh, ANS Marriage, ANS Marriage and Divorce, ANS Marriage and Divorce (maliki-fiqh), ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh, ANS-General
TAGGED WITH:: daughter-in-law, divorce, father-in-law, kissing, marriage
/by YusufUstadh Salman Younas gives general advice on a case of a father-in-law kissing the daughter-in-law by mistake and how one should act in such cases. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. A case has arisen in our town that a father in law suddenly and unexpectedly kissed his daughter in law. This all […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Marriage, ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: divorce, fear, music
/by yacineQuestion: I would like to know if, while I am singing a break-up song and my husband nods his head to it, that would constitute a divorce? What if he sings a break-up song to me? Answer: Wa’alaykum assalam. Thank you for writing in. Going by the examples you have given, no divorce has been affected. Divorce […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Marriage, ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: divorce, fear, music
/by yacineQuestion: I need urgent help. If there was a song playing that says “You ruin my life, by not being mine” and “there’s nothing I hate more than what I can have.” and my husband nods and moves his hand up and down. I sang other parts of the song. Is it considered a divorce if […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: children
/by sufyanAnswered by Shaykh Abdurragmaan Khan Question: Assalam alaykum, I don’t want children in the future. I am very sure about it. But I heard from a lot of people that this isn’t Islamic correct. I don’t get it. Maybe it is mustahab to have children but you can’t make a women put in such a […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: bad thoughts, mother-in-law
/by sufyanAnswered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I once had immoral and bad thoughts about my future mother in law and masturbated to those thoughts. There was no contact between me and my future Mother in Law. Can I still marry her daughter according to Shafi’i fiqh? Answer: Assalam ‘alaykum. Jazakum Allah for your […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: etiquette divorce
/by sufyanAnswered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I am going through a divorce. What are the etiquettes when going through a divorce? Answer: Wa’alaykum assalam. I pray you’re well. I am sorry to hear that you are going through a divorce. The best of etiquettes when divorcing is to try to be as amicable […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: khula'
/by sufyanAnswered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I have gone through a legal court which has deemed it fit to order a khula’ arrangement. They told my wife to give me 25% of the dowry. Do I have to take this money? Answer: Assalam ‘alaykum. I pray you’re well. A khula’ agreement is a […]
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