Marriage and Divorce (Shafii)

October 1, 2022 3 mins

How Can I Deal with a Wife Who Makes No Effort to Look Nice for Me?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is it a sin if a wife does not groom herself? My wife gained weight, wears ugly outfits due to the weight, does not do her hair, neglects her body, and doesn’t dress modestly outside, and I am not attracted to her. It has been over a decade, and […]
September 18, 2022 2 mins

Is My Marriage Not Halal Because I Asked Allah to Send Me a Sign If It Wasn’t?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My husband and I were looking at a house. Everything was fine until we found minor issues in the house that could easily be fixed. But the seller eventually canceled the transaction. Before, I made dua to Allah to only give us this house if our marriage is halal […]
September 16, 2022 3 mins

How Can I Marry the Man I Love When His Father Says I Am Too Old for Him?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I fell in love with a boy at work who is four years younger than me. I told him that our future was not guaranteed, but he said he would stand with me no matter what and we continued our relationship. We informed our families, and his mother advised […]
September 9, 2022 4 mins

How to Convince My Wife to Move-In with Me?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I separated a year and a half ago due to fighting with my wife. She accused me of having an affair with my first wife. My first wife has remarried, and the two kids that I had with her stay with her. I also have two kids with my […]