Parents

April 13, 2025 2 mins

Am I Sinful for Paying My Mother’s Rent Against Her Wishes?

Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question I pay my mother’s rent as she is mentally ill and has a debt of £9,000. Despite this, she curses and insults me for covering the rent and asks me to leave. However, staying ensures both of us have an affordable home. Am I sinful for continuing to pay the […]
April 12, 2025 4 mins

What Are My Rights Regarding My Siblings as a Single Woman Taking Care of The Pa...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question What are my rights and responsibilities as a daughter and single woman caring for my elderly father, and what are my siblings’ obligations toward him? How can I ensure my future security, especially with inheritance concerns and no will in place? Answer Thank you for your question. Parents What […]
April 12, 2025 2 mins

Am I Obliged to Check In and Offer Support to My Illegitimate Child?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question As a recent convert, I worry about severing family ties and its impact on my Hereafter. Fifteen years ago, I fathered a child out of wedlock and legally accepted responsibility, though the child’s family did not want a relationship with me. Am I obligated to check in and offer […]
April 11, 2025 4 mins

How Can I Cope with My Father’s Neglect and Mother’s Pain?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I struggle with my father’s neglect and feel it’s making me bitter. Seeing my mother in pain and my sister’s divorce adds to my distress. I fear I’ll never marry and often feel hopeless and lost. Is Allah punishing me or teaching me? How can I cope with these […]
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