Parents

November 6, 2024 3 mins

How Do I Handle My Abusive Father Without Disrespecting Him?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My father is verbally abusive and has been physically violent. I avoid and disrespect him, which stresses my mother, who tells me to be patient. How can I handle this without committing major sins while seeking a life of baraka? Answer Thank you for your question. I empathize with […]
November 3, 2024 3 mins

Can I Use My Father’s Surname Even If My Parents Hadn’t Gotten Married Until...

Answered by Mawlana Ilyas Patel Question If my parents didn’t get married until after I was born, and I have lived with both of them for most of my life, is my father still considered my biological father? If so, can I use his name as my surname? Answer In the Name of Allah, the […]
October 27, 2024 2 mins

Can I Ask My Father for Money Implying That It Is for School Fees?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is it permissible to ask my father for more money than my actual study fees without explicitly stating it’s for fees? Is the extra cash halal? Answer Thank you for your question. No, it is not permissible to ask your father for an amount and imply that the whole […]
October 27, 2024 3 mins

How Should We Treat My Uncle Who Makes My Sister Uncomfortable?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My sister accused my uncle of inappropriate behavior, but he denied any intention of this, and nothing physical happened. My mother insists we distance ourselves, but my father and I want to maintain family ties. How should we approach this? Answer Thank you for your question. I empathize with […]
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