September 23, 2022 2 mins

Has My Sin Disqualified Me from the Virtue in the Prophet Narration?

Answered by Shaykh Yusuf Weltch Question Allah says in the Quran “And those who guard their chastity…” and Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said in a hadith [Sahih ibn Hibban, 4252) that amongst three other things, if a woman guards her chastity she will enter paradise from any gate that she wishes. Unfortunately, I’ve committed the sin […]
September 16, 2022 3 mins

How Can I Marry the Man I Love When His Father Says I Am Too Old for Him?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I fell in love with a boy at work who is four years younger than me. I told him that our future was not guaranteed, but he said he would stand with me no matter what and we continued our relationship. We informed our families, and his mother advised […]
September 16, 2022 6 mins

How Can I Convince My Husband That He Is Not Destined for Hellfire?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My husband does not pray, and his reason is that he has hurt many people in his teens and has begged for their forgiveness, but they have never forgiven him. We know Allah does not forgive on behalf of matters, relating to humans. My husband feels hopeless and does […]
September 9, 2022 4 mins

Can I Join a Seminary to Avoid the Sin of Pornography?

Answered by Shaykh Yusuf Weltch Question I’ve struggled with pornography since I was 12 and am in my early 20s. I’ve tried everything, including Purify Your Gaze, mostly generic self-help (which isn’t that effective if you want to stay away from your computer), 12 Step (SAA), Counseling, Shuyukh and dua, and tahajjud. I always make […]