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I Am 36 Years Old, Unmarried and So Lonely. What Do I Do?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I am a 36 year old male who is still not married. I have been making du’a for the last eight years but I am still not able to settle down. Is marriage not in my decree? I’m so worried and lonely. Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi […]

How Can I Deal With the Pain of Failing to Marry?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalam alaykum I suffer from autism and struggled greatly to form friendships over the years. I am now in my early 30’s and suffering from years of frustration due to lack of ability to marry and attract the opposite sex. I suffer from intense anger and bitterness and this […]

I Am a Young, Unmarried Woman in a Chaotic Family Home. Is It Permissible for Me to Move Out?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I have brothers who have moved out and have children. Whenever they come and visit my parents and me they behave in an impolite and reckless way. I am financially supporting my parents, they are not. Is it permissible for me to buy my own home in order […]

Is it Permissible To Choose To Stay Single?

Answered by Ustadh Salman Younas Question: Why Rabia Basri pursued the life of a celibate despite the fact that it is sunnah to get married? Answer: assalamu `alaykum From a legal perspective, marriage may take a ruling ranging from obligation to impermissibility. It would be obligatory to get married if one fears falling into fornication […]