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September 14, 2023 3 mins

Is it Permissible to Keep Customary Gifted Money in Traditions at Wedding Events...

Answered by Mawlana Ilyas Patel Question I have a question regarding a tradition called “dood pilai” in Asian households. During weddings, there is a tradition in which the bride’s sisters take money from the groom and, in return, give him a glass of milk. It’s usually pre-planned with the groom, so he comes prepared. This […]
September 14, 2023 2 mins

How to Take Care of My Divorced Parents?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My parents got divorced six years ago. I am (24 years old) renting a house close to my work, and my mother (56 years old) lives with me. My dad (61 years old) lives in his house by himself, which is two hours away. I visit my dad once […]
September 13, 2023 2 mins

Did I Disrespect My Mom by Standing and Saying ‘Ummm’?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question One day, my mom told me to go back to bed as I woke up early, but I wanted to study. I stood there for a bit and made a noise like “ummmm” or “uhhhh” to indicate I didn’t like the idea very much, but I didn’t intend to […]
September 13, 2023 2 mins

Can a Sister Wear a T-Shirt in Front of Her Brother?

Answered by Mawlana Ilyas Patel Question This question stems from this article. As a brother, the article says I am permitted to see the legs below the knees, and I can also see my sister’s chest. I need some clarification. I understand that I won’t be tempted by seeing her legs, but that is still […]
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