Marriage and Divorce (Shafii)

June 4, 2023 2 mins

If I Swore an Oath to Marry Someone, Do I Have to Do It Even after Repenting?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question If a Muslim couple committed fornication (zina) and repented, must they marry? He promised and swore by Allah that once he touches her, he will take full responsibility and marry her. Must he still fulfill his promise, even though they repented? Answer Thank you for your question. May Allah […]
May 19, 2023 3 mins

How Should I Approach a Christian Girl for Marriage as I Am 15 Years Old?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am a 15-year-old who recently fell in love with a Christian girl. She has good character and believes in God. I have talked to her a few times on social media but have since realized that it is immoral because things can go out of hand. My only […]
May 19, 2023 3 mins

How Does Incest Impact One’s Marriage in the Shafi’i School?

Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question I heard that according to the Hanafi School of Thought, incest invalidates a nikah. In the Shafi’i School of thought, does incest nullify a nikah, or can true repentance suffice for an individual to maintain the validity of their nikah? If an individual is Hanafi and has committed incest, can […]
May 18, 2023 5 mins

What is Extravagance (Israf) in a Wedding Celebration?

Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question My family insists that my wife and I have an elaborate wedding. They say that it is reasonable, regardless of thousands of dollars unnecessarily spent on the hall, decorations, stage/lighting, photography, etc., and they reason that they can afford it, which is customary within their community. Whenever we argue, it […]
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