Marriage and Divorce (Shafii)

February 20, 2023 3 mins

How To Deal With Waswasa and Urge To Divorce My Wife?

Answered by Shaykh Abdul-Rahim Reasat Question I have a lot of waswasa about purity and divorce. I’m happy with my wife, but I get a lot of intense waswasa about divorcing her. Many a time, I have thoughts like “If I do such and such a thing she is divorced.” If I do those things […]
February 17, 2023 3 mins

Is It Necessary to Use a Condom during Oral Sex?

Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question My wife is concerned that performing oral sex is haram because of the possible presence of pre-seminal fluid. She asks that I wear a condom. Is oral sex without a condom allowed if I ensure that I do not ejaculate in her mouth? Answer In the Name of Allah, the […]
February 4, 2023 3 mins

Can I Put a Clause in the Marriage Contract to Permit Divorce If My Husband Rema...

Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick Question In writing up the marriage contract, is it permissible to either state that my husband should not get a second wife / or state that if he is to get a second wife without my permission/consent, I would have a right to divorce him? Answer In the Name of Allah, […]
February 2, 2023 2 mins

Do the Words “There Is a Solution” Imply Divorce?

Answered by Shaykh Abdul-Rahim Reasat Question During an argument with my wife, because I did not agree to invite a person from her family into our house, which I judged as perverse, my wife indicated that her patience had limits. I have replied to my wife, “there is a solution,” by referring to divorce, although […]
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