Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I’m 24 years old and desire to get married; however, my parents refuse to look for me or allow me to look. They are incredibly passive and believe that one should only make dua and that Allah Most High writes everything already and believe that looking online brings shame. […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have a friend who has recently reverted to Islam. Her whole family is Christian. As it’s not allowed in Islam to find our spouse ourselves, how should she marry if she has none who could look for a spouse for her? And if she gets a spouse, should […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I discovered my husband sent very affectionate texts to a lady. One message read, “You do know we are in a totally haram relationship?” She replied to that, “Tawba.” I confronted him, and he blackmailed me, saying I won’t see him again if I asked about this. He also […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question It’s been six months since my wedding, and I cringe at how my husband (30yrs) and his younger sister (23yrs) behave. I read about siblings kissing each other and learned it’s okay to give a peck on the cheek to a mahram. But is it okay for my sister-in-law […]