FILED UNDER: ANS Family Ties, ANS Marriage, ANSWERS (Parent of ANS blog)
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws, family ties, harm, problems with in-laws, toxic relationships
/by YusufUstadh Farid Dingle is asked if it is permissible to cut ties to in-laws who are abusive in order to ward off harm to oneself and one’s children. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. I am in need of advice. As a daughter in law, I have cut ties with my husband’s brother […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Living Religion, ANS Marriage
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws, adab, hate, marital counseling, marriage, sensitivity
/by YusufUstadha Raidah Shah Idil is asked for advice concerning the hatred a person feels toward a future father-in-law, and how they fear that may ruin the marriage. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. I hope everyone is well. I really hate my future wife’s father. I really love her and I don’t want […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Marriage and Divorce
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws, Must Read
/by sufyanAnswered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I was Hindu but converted to Islam and got married to my husband. His family does not accept me. Please, how do I have a successful love marriage? Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. May Allah reward you for reaching […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws
/by sufyanAnswered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I have been living with my mother in law and though she is a generous and kind person, we don’t mix well. I just find her presence all day everyday to be too interfering for me and my husband, especially because we have a child. I […]
FILED UNDER: ANS Marriage and Divorce (shafii-fiqh), ANS Shafi'i Fiqh
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws
/by sufyanAnswered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum My mother in law is a single mother and my husband is the only son. She is being rude with me, she bosses around me and my husband. Any decision we take should be under her permission. I am not happy with this atmosphere. Is it permissible […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Marriage and Divorce
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws, niqab
/by sufyanAnswered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I live with my in-laws and they place me under a lot pressure, as if I will take their son away from them. I have no privacy. I cannot talk to my husband when I am not home. They force me to wear niqab, even though […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws
/by sufyanAnswered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum We have tried our best to make my brother’s wife welcome and at home in our home. She comes with my brother every week to greet my mom. Lately she has been very rude openly and tells lies to my brother about us. Most of the time […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Marriage and Divorce
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws
/by sufyanAnswered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My wife, children and I live with my elderly parents and brother. My wife is unhappy because she needs to wear hijab everywhere in our home except for our bedroom and bathroom. She has no privacy elsewhere in our home. My elderly parents say that she […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws, abusive parents
/by sufyanAnswered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My husband’s parents have told their sons to divorce their wives and take their money. Alhamdulilah, my husband has stayed away from his parents and so our marriage has survived. He fears their bad influence, so he has cut ties with his parents. Is that permissible? […]
FILED UNDER: ANS General Counsel, ANS Marriage and Divorce
TAGGED WITH:: abusive in-laws
/by sufyanAnswered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I live with my mother, wife, and child. My wife doesn’t get along with my mother. If my mother tries to give her advice, she takes it the wrong way. My mother is old and I don’t want to leave her and move out. What do […]
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