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My Wife Had an Affair. We Have a Young Daughter. What Do I Do?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My wife had an affair with her co-worker, but she refuses to quit her job. When I check her phone location, she is not where she says she will be. Ours was a love marriage – she was Christian before she embraced Islam. We have a […]

My Wife Has Confessed to Having an Affair. What Should I Do?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, What should I do, as a Muslim husband, after my wife has admitted to having an affair with someone on a single occasion? How should I deal with it? Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. May Allah reward you for […]

I Had an Affair and Have Repented. Should I Tell My Husband?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam alaykum, I was unhappy in my marriage, and had an affair with my ex. I sincerely regret this, have severed ties with him, and have repented. I am so scared. Should I tell my husband? How do I restore his right? Answer: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah […]

How Do I Deal With Having an Unfaithful Father?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My father has had a string of extra-marital affairs, and does not know that I know. What do I do? Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. May Allah reward you for reaching out to us. Support Dear sister, you are […]

My Husband Barely Touches Me. What Do I Do?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I have been married for 7 years, have children, and my husband barely touches me, to the point where I have had a brief affair because I am so sexually frustrated. I am afraid to leave my husband because of my children. What do I do? Answer: Assalamualaykum […]