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Keeping Family Ties Through Intergenerational Trauma – Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil reflects on why she travels with two small children, and how to break the cycle of  intergenerational trauma. I started to write this while my two jetlagged daughters were finally fast asleep. My husband, young daughters and I have just returned from our annual visit to Sydney, Australia. There, I finally […]

Prophetic Parenting Part 1 – Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

The Prophetic Parenting series, taught by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani,  covers 40 Hadiths on raising righteous Muslim children. Shaykh Faraz Rabbani opens the session by bringing the discussion to the pre-marriage phase; choosing a spouse. A successful marriage will be with somebody who has good character, empathy, generosity, and other inner trails, while things like beauty […]

Is It Obligatory to Try to Have Children?

Answered by Shaykh Abdurragmaan Khan Question: Assalam alaykum, I don’t want children in the future. I am very sure about it. But I heard from a lot of people that this isn’t Islamic correct. I don’t get it. Maybe it is mustahab to have children but you can’t make a women put in such a […]

How to Raise Children in Difficult Environments?

Answered by  Habib Umar bin Hafiz Question: Assalam aleykum A woman who lives with her husband and children in a non-Muslim home, what is her responsibility in safeguarding her faith and the faith of her children? Answer: [Assalam alaykum] She is responsible for: -Filling her heart and the hearts of her children with the love of Allah, […]

Am I Obligated to Look After My Difficult Grandchildren If I Cannot Manage?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My daughter is married and lives on the same street as me. I have said that I can’t look after the children whenever they have had enough, or when they want to go out child-free. Her husband forces her to send them to me when she […]

Ustadha Zaynab Ansari on Women of the Quran: Sarah

Ustadha Zaynab Ansari, in partnership with Muslimah Media, speaks in a 6-part series about women who are documented in the Quran. Sarah, wife of Ibrahim Sarah, wife of the Prophet Ibrahim, is the oldest historical figure mentioned in the Quran. She appears both in the Quran and in the hadith traditions. In Islam, she is […]

Imam Zaid Shakir on the Florida Shootings

The following post by Imam Zaid Shakir was first published on his personal FaceBook page immediately following the shootings. We chose to republish it as it attempts to bypass the emotionally driven factionalism and address the roots causes of what is happening. School Shootings: More Than Deranged Teenagers Our condolences to the families of those […]

Is There a Dua Protecting Children from Bad Intentions of People?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I am a mother of a 3 year old son. My in-laws want to harm my son. I feel it. Is there a Dua to protect him from evil people? Answer: Assalam ‘alaykum. I am sorry to hear about the difficulties you’re facing. May Allah make things […]

The Noble Intention of Parents

From Habib Kadhim Al-Saqqaf – Parenting in the Modern World Raising Pious Children Translated by Shaykh Ahmed Abdo, during the Australian tour, 2017 The noble intention of mothers, fathers and grandparents has an effect on subsequent generations. That’s why we find great Imams, like Imam Bukhari, Imam Shafi’i, before they were born their parents made noble […]

My Husband Doesn’t Want to Have Kids. What Can I Do?

Answered by Ustadh Salman Younas Question: Assalam alaykum My husband has changed his mind about having kids. It has been a very traumatic experience for me as I love him dearly and I want to have a family with him. 1. My husband argues that there is nothing in Islam that says that a married […]