Sexual Urge when Spouse Works Overseas

Ustadah Raidah Shah Idil is asked about how to control one’s sexual desires and the urge to masturbate when one’s spouse is away for long periods. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. I am a wife and mother living in India, while my husband works in Saudi Arabia. I am getting very sexually […]

Is It Right to Have Sex With Someone You Love Before Marriage?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Is it right to have sex with someone you love before marriage? Can you please tell me how far looks or physical attraction is important in Islam ? What if I accept him and people criticise me, how should I respond ? Will it be wise to accept […]

Intimate Conversations on the Phone Before Marriage.

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani Question: Recently I spoke to a brother with the intention to get married, but after a while the conversion turned sexual and he would talk about sex acts he would perform on me. He would ejaculate and I would have an orgasm. I know this is wrong and I shouldn’t […]

Controlling Sexual Desires When Marriage Is “Put on Hold”

Answered by Hakima Fatimah Question: How can sisters control strong sexual desires when they are trying to get married, or have to put it on hold for whatever reason? Are there herbs or natural remedies that may assist in this? Answer: As salaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu, The Nature of the Problem I pondered […]