What Are the Requirements of Hijab?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah

Question: Asaalam alaykum

1. In Ayah 31 of Surat Al-Nur, it states “and let them draw their Khimars over their bosoms.” With the usage of the word Khimar, is there any scholarly opinion that states that the Khimar (the long scarf that covers the chest and shoulders along with the head and neck) is an obligation, or is the regular headscarf permissible?

2. How old must a male be for it to be an obligation to observe proper Hijab in front of him?

3. Must she wear an Abaya (full body-length cloak) for her prayer to be accepted?

Answer: Wa alaykum assalam.

In the Name of Allah, the Merciful and Compassionate

Thank you for your questions. May Allah grant you the best of states and guide you to what is pleasing to Him.

1. The Ayat you mention contains two words:

خُمُرِ (Khumur): This is the plural of khimar. Linguistically, Khimar simply means a head covering. Today, we more often use Hijab to refer to the garment that covers the hair and neck. Linguistically, hijab simple means a barrier or prevention. Hijab is therefore more general in meaning than the word khimar.

جُيُوبِ (Juyub): This is the plural of Jayb. The jayb is the opening at the top of the garment. In most translations of this verse, it is translated as “bosoms”.

Imam al Qurtubi mention in his commentary on this verse that, “Women in those days used to cover their heads with the khimar, throwing its ends upon their backs. This left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare, along with the ears, in the manner of the Christians. Then Allah commanded them to cover those parts with the khimar.” (Tafsir al Qurtubi].

Other Quranic commentators, such as Ibn Kathir, also offer similar explanations.

We can deduce then, that whatever the garment worn over the head (whether we call it a hijab or a khimar), it must cover the head and hair, the neck and throat, and the upper chest area.

This can be achieved using a normal hijab when worn properly. The particular garment we refer to now as khimar certainly does the job, as it is longer, looser, and specifically designed as a basic one-piece garment made for this purpose. Therefore, it is not a matter of one or the other, but rather a Muslim woman may choose to wear either one, or alternate, as long as those areas mentioned above are covered. Neither is it necessary that the garment be black or dark coloured. This comes down to the suitability and appropriateness of the area she is in.

As for the lower part of the chest (as well as all other areas of the body, particularly prominent areas), the covering of these should also fulfill the criteria of modesty such as looseness, and not eye-catching, and this can depend on both the fabric worn (e.g. looseness, drape, and clinginess of fabric) and the individual’s body form. Once a woman has done what she is obliged to do in regards her modesty, she does not need to do anything more. We should not forget that the other side of to this issue is that men are obliged to lower their gaze.

2. When a child reaches an age that he would be typically considered attractive by the opposite sex, he is deemed as kabir (older child). This usually takes place around 7-8 years of age, but closer to 8 years old. While there is some discrepancy between individual children, 9 years old is generally considered a cut-off point. Other scholars have stated it is anything over 7 years old [Hashiyat ala Tuhfat al Muhtaj].

The ruling in acts of worship in regards to a child who is kabir is that they are treated as an adult in regards to the opposite sex, except that they are still not legally responsible. Therefore, even though they are not legally obliged to look away from the opposite sex (parents should teach them in this period), an adult must treat him/her as another adult, and necessarily take the same precautions as they would with an adult of the opposite sex. This means the female adult is obliged to wear hijab in front of an older boy, and an adult male is obliged to lower his gaze away from a female older child.

3. It is not a condition that a women wear an abaya for her prayer to be valid, in the same way it is not a condition for a man to wear a thobe or jubba for his prayer to be valid. In fact, even if she/he wore very tight clothes which cover the awrah, the prayer would still be valid, albeit this would be greatly disliked. Rather, the only criterion for the prayer to be valid is that it covers the whole body except the face and hands (in our school), and does not reveal the colour of the skin. One is free to choose any suitable clothes that fulfil this condition.

Many people choose abayas/thobes for the same reason they choose khimars over normal hijabs; they are garments which purposefully and simply fulfill the legal criteria. Although looseness of one’s clothing is not a condition for one’s prayer to be valid, it should be kept in mind that just like one should wear modest and loose clothing outside of prayer, one should wear it during prayer, even more so given the fact they are in various positions during the prayer, and most importantly, they are standing in front of their Lord. And Allah is Most knowing.

I wish you ease and success in all your endeavors. Warmest salams.

[Shaykh] Jamir Meah

Checked and approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

Shaykh Jamir Meah grew up in Hampstead, London. In 2007 I travelled to Tarim, Yemen, where I spent nine years studying the Islamic sciences on a one-to-one basis under the foremost scholars of the Ribaat, Tarim, with my main specialization and focus on Shafi’i fiqh. In early 2016, I moved to Amman, Jordan, where I continue advanced study in a range of sciences, as well as teaching. Away from the Islamic sciences, I am a qualified Homeopath, and run a private clinic in Amman.

Can My Husband Force Me to Wear Abaya?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

Question: I got married recently and my husband says he follows the Hanafi school of thought, hence he wants me to wear a black abaya. I do not live in a country that requires wearing an abaya. I wear loose fitted clothes with a hijab. Only my hands, feet and face can be seen. In this kind of situation, would you recommend I wear the abaya or not?

Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

I pray this finds you well. May Allah reward you for seeking clarity on this issue.


One of the cornerstones of a successful Islamic marriage is this – having sincere concern for your spouse. With that in mind, in order to preserve marital harmony, it is unwise for a person to force anything upon his/her spouse.

Please sit down and work through this as a team. Work on understanding each other’s point of view. Why does he want you to wear a black abaya? Living in the West, it is very possible to dress modestly without needing a black abaya, as you have described. Do the women in his family wear black abayas? Is this something he aspires for you? Consulting with your spouse is of the sunnah, and helps to foster love between the two of you.

As a Muslimah, it is praiseworthy to strive towards both outer and inner modesty. However, your highest intention must be for Allah. Being pressured into a choice yo do not want to make can harm the state of your heart, as well as your marriage.

I urge both of you to complete Islamic Marriage: Guidance for Successful Marriage and Married Life to help you understand the spirit and the law behind a successful Islamic marriage. May Allah increase the tranquility and love in your marriage.

Please refer to the following link:

Modesty: Kohl, Jilbabs, and Allah


Checked & Approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

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How Can I Know If I Am Modestly Dressed? [Women]

Answered by Ustadha Shaista Maqbool

Question: Assalam alaykum

Should I check if I am modestly dress from afar? From mid view? From birds eye view? From a low angle?

Answer: Wa’alaikum assalaam warahmatu Allah,

May Allah bless you. Dressing modestly is not complicated. Just make sure you are covered (everything except hands, face, and feet), your clothes should be loose and not transparent. If you meet the above criteria, you do not need to check yourself from every (or any) angle.


Shaista Maqbool

Checked & Approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

Tightness of Clothes

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

Question: Tightness of Clothes

clothingAnswer: Tightness is, indeed difficult to specifically define. The tighter clothing is, the more disliked it would be–and when it is reasonably likely to attract undue looks as a result of the tightness, then it would become sinful as well.

Caution is best. This does include the legs with very high boots, though “regular” boots wouldn’t be considered disliked (as they are being worn for good reason, and aren’t typically considered “unduly attractive”).

The outer garment should be loose around the chest area, yes.

One should strive to hold oneself to the “higher” ways of greater modesty and decorum, while making excuses for others, and seeking whether we can gently and positively encourage them towards what is better.

And Allah alone gives success.

Faraz Rabbani

Beyond Hijab: Modesty Amongst Women in Islam

In this lecture, Shaykh Faraz Rabbani gives advice on reframing the question of Hijab from one of form (clothing) to one of essence (modesty) by using the Prophetic example and the example of the best of women: Khadijah, Fatima, Maryam, A’isha, and Asiya (May Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) be pleased with them all).

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