Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question A 13-year-old boy lies to his mother, secretly uses a phone, spends large sums on clothing, sells gift cards, and keeps bad company. His mother is unaware of the full extent of his behavior due to his convincing lies. Should I tell her the truth or suggest sending him […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Does a parent have the right to insult or physically hit their child for mistakes? How should one address parents prioritizing personal expenses, like Umrah, over fulfilling a child’s essential needs? Answer Thank you for your question. A parent may not abuse their child, though they have a right […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I ensure my child receives proper Islamic teachings if my ex-spouse’s approach conflicts with my beliefs? Answer Thank you for your question. Co-parenting is not easy, so you should communicate with him/her as much as you can and do your best. Leave the rest to Allah and […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I build respect for my mother despite her being messy and unable to cook? Answer Thank you for your question. The first thing is to change your attitude and realize that you are alive because of her. That should be a sufficient starting point if not enough […]