Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question The wife initiated a legal divorce under Ontario law, and a divorce certificate has been issued. Mehr and gifts were returned and acknowledged by the ex-husband’s father. The ex-husband previously refused to sign Khul‘a papers. Is his signature required for the Khul‘a to be valid, and are there other […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I encourage my wife to establish her prayer without triggering anger or resistance, given that she reacts negatively whenever I bring up the topic? Answer Thank you for your question. You can do so with wisdom, patience, and gentleness; in sha Allah, you will find much good […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I set boundaries on my 17-year-old daughter’s screen use if it is affecting her mental health, responsibilities, and daily well-being? Answer Thank you for your question. Many parents and I empathize with this issue, and may Allah give you ease and wisdom in rectifying the problem. Five […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I grew up in a family with frequent disputes, which even concerned our neighbors. Should I consult a scholar about these issues, or should I move on and focus on my life? Answer Thank you for your question. Simply by seeing your question, I know that you have unresolved […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is it permissible for women to wear necklaces over their hijab, considering the Quran’s mention of “except what ordinarily appears”? Answer Thank you for your question. Necklaces do not count as what normally appears, but the type of necklace is also a factor. Quranic Injunction Allah commands the believing […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My husband left for Germany to repay his father’s loan with an agreement to return in two years. After repaying the loan, he changed his behavior, shared our private matters with his friends, and issued a divorce letter without notifying me. Given that he knew I was waiting for […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Should I marry a practicing Muslim I had a past haram relationship with, despite my mother’s concerns, or wait for another suitable match? Answer I can’t tell you what to do, but your decision must be based on changing yourselves into righteous people, repenting from your past and not […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question What is the role of women in moral and spiritual growth, and how can they maintain spirituality despite modern societal challenges? Answer Thank you for your question. Growing spiritually is a challenge for anyone in this modern society and more so for women who have a multitude of expectations […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I wear a tight hijab to cover my neck and hair, but the shape of my ears is visible despite my efforts to hide them. Is this permissible? Answer Thank you for your question. It is permissible that the shape of your ears show. Modesty Islam is a religion […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Can a Muslim couple provide the suitor’s parents’ names to the woman’s animist father, who wants to consult ancestors for guidance before approving their marriage? Answer Thank you for your question. It would be impermissible to assist in the sin of animism, so please avoid giving their names. Parents […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am overwhelmed with the responsibilities of supporting my elderly, financially unstable parents, managing my job, and caring for my children and home. My husband cannot assist financially or with childcare, and I am struggling with stress and health issues. How can I balance these obligations while preserving my […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My husband has a 4-year-old son from a previous marriage and wants to have him overnight every other weekend. However, he prefers to take him to his sister’s house instead of ours to spare his ex-wife’s feelings. I feel excluded and believe this sets a bad precedent for our […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question A 13-year-old boy lies to his mother, secretly uses a phone, spends large sums on clothing, sells gift cards, and keeps bad company. His mother is unaware of the full extent of his behavior due to his convincing lies. Should I tell her the truth or suggest sending him […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Our mosque’s girls’ committee plans to organize a religious lecture by a sister trained in Islamic theology. Is it permissible to restrict the masjid to women only during the lecture, likely held after Maghrib or Isha? Answer Thank you for your question. It is permissible to do so but […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have been married for 19 years, and recently my husband went out of his way to help a female colleague, which caused tension and mistrust between us. He changed his phone password to protect the friendship, which left me hurt and with lingering doubts. How can I overcome […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am in a haram relationship with a boy struggling with severe mental illness, and we have fallen into zina. I want to end the relationship and seek forgiveness, but he says he will harm himself if I leave. How can I stop this relationship, make things halal, and […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Will women be able to reunite with their family, female friends, adult children, and their mothers in Janna if they all enter Paradise? Answer Thank you for your question. Yes, you will be with those that you love, by the grace of Allah Most High, as the Prophet (Allah […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am a young Muslim woman struggling with mental health due to criticism and isolation from family and the Muslim community. I feel more accepted among liberals but fear losing my faith. Does living a pious life require emotional pain and sacrifice? How can I maintain my faith and […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question When can a woman say “Amin” aloud? Does this differ if she is alone, with mahram men, or in a congregation where non-mahram men might hear her? Answer Thank you for your question. Yes, the ruling differs for a woman according to who can hear her. For men and […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My father gifted his property to my autistic nephew, citing his condition as the reason. This has caused resentment, as I was always told the property would be divided equally between me and my brother. Am I wrong to feel upset about this decision? Answer Thank you for your […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is a woman with a chronic illness obligated to cook and clean if it causes her significant hardship, especially when older children manage household tasks? Can her husband relieve her of this duty or make accommodations to ease her burden, and would she be sinful for not fulfilling these […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question What types of festive clothes, jewelry, and makeup are permissible for women, considering the clothes are modest, loose, and cover the body except for the face, hands, and feet? Answer Thank you for your question. There is no black-and-white answer, but in general, you should err on the side […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I plan to switch from studying medicine to teaching to maintain hijab and avoid being alone with non-mahram patients. My parents, who have limited Islamic knowledge, strongly oppose this, and my father gave me an ultimatum to choose him or teach. Was choosing him the right decision? Answer Thank […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Does a parent have the right to insult or physically hit their child for mistakes? How should one address parents prioritizing personal expenses, like Umrah, over fulfilling a child’s essential needs? Answer Thank you for your question. A parent may not abuse their child, though they have a right […]