Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I respectfully stop my mother from sharing my personal information with others, especially when she becomes upset or claims authority as my parent? Answer Thank you for your question. You can’t stop her, but you can respectfully ask her to do so, and be patient if she […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I be firm yet respectful with my father, who insults my mother and has a history of abuse, while managing my religious OCD and lack of local guidance? Answer Thank you for your question. There is no sin on you to remind him that he may not […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I married an English convert four years ago, but my mother has struggled to accept the marriage due to cultural differences. While my wife tries to engage, tensions remain, and I now feel overwhelmed by the situation, especially with a child involved. Do you have any advice? Answer Thank […]

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How can I build respect for my mother despite her being messy and unable to cook? Answer Thank you for your question. The first thing is to change your attitude and realize that you are alive because of her. That should be a sufficient starting point if not enough […]