Entries by sufyan

My Fiance Discovered Some Objectionable Files on My Computer

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: I recently got engaged. For a period in my life just before the engagement I let my nafs overcome me. I decided to give my old computer to her and buy a new one and she discovered some old files, disgusting and inexcusable acts done online. I really regretted […]

Modesty: Kohl, Jilbabs, and Allah

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani Question: Is it permissible for women to apply kohl/antimony to the eyes, as it is from the Sunnah and is beneficial, even when they go out in public quite often? Answer: Walaikum assalam, If they can do this in a way that would not create undue attention, and not lead […]

Is Hugging on Eid an Innovation (Bid`a)?

Answered by Sidi Salman Younas Question: Is it bidah to hug on Eid? A dear friend refused to hug saying it is a bidah. What is the correct way to celebrate eid then? What is the right way to greet fellow Muslims on Eid? Please explain the correct position. Answer: assalamu `alaykum I pray you […]

How Do Students With No Money Deal With Sexual Urges?

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: This is a awkward topic many people do not talk about but I think it is important to clarify this issue. Fact is that time is changing. Values and thoughts about life are changing, too. Although we Muslims are striving to hold on our Deen as much as we […]

Balancing Marital Privacy Against Living with My Mother

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: I have recently gotten married (Nikaah) to a man living in another state, and my mother had told him that he is not allowed to see me until we have the walimah which is 6 months after. We accepted her request although we really want to be together. Now […]

My Mother Prefers That I Don’t Have a Beard

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: My situation is that my mom doesn’t like how I look in a beard. She knows it’s a sunnah to have one and doesn’t mind it but prefers if I don’t have one. Since it is a sunnah, should I grow the beard anyway disregarding my mother’s wishes or […]