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Sinful Relationship and Marriage

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I have been dating someone for almost a year and we are both in our final year at university. We often feel guilt for doing sin and have gone through to periods of trying to avoid seeing each other but at times we fall weak and […]

I Am in an Impermissible but Healthy Relationship. What Should I Do?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I am in a relationship which I know is haram and we have also done haram in the time we spent together during meetings and now people are getting suspicious but as a couple we are helping each other islamically which is making our attachment even stronger […]

I Feel So Guilty About Having a Girlfriend. How Can I Get Through This?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I was immature and got a girlfriend and then broke up after many years. I feel so guilty, as I wasted her time, dragged her along for nothing and increased her sins. What dua can I read to help her and me get through it? Is it permissible […]

I Am Attracted to a Young Man Who is in a Relationship. Should I Follow My Heart?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: A week ago I met a guy who is in a relationship with someone else. I feel like he is the one and I want to marry him. I care for him. Should I follow my heart? My heart says I’m going to marry him. We will avoid […]

Should I Marry My Boyfriend, or Break Off the Relationship?

Answered by Ustadh Tabraze Azam Question: I have a boyfriend. We have transgressed some limits and  I don’t want to do this anymore. I want to tell him that I have decided to marry him or to stop having contact. But I have learned that transgressing limits before marriage takes all the baraka away that […]