Answered by Mawlana Ilyas Patel
I was in a relationship with a boy, and we ended up really bad, and now he is torturing me to hell. I want to do magic on him so that he would forget who I am or anything about me, even if he should delete all the pictures and everything. Is it good to do magic to make my way at ease?
In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate.
I pray you are in good faith and health. Thank you for your question. I am sad to hear this is happening to you in this way.
It would be sinful of you to do something like this to someone. Find other ways to make him stop doing this. Speak to a local reliable scholar to help you speak to him. From your end, you apologize that you have ended this for the sake of Allah Most High, and it is best for him to do so too and not resort to this way as it will not achieve anything but regret later.
It was narrated from Anas (Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “Every son of Adam commits sin, and the best of those who commit sin are those who repent.’” [Ibn Maja]
Always remember that all matters are in Allah’s hands. He is very loving and kind, and whatever has happened to you will ultimately be of benefit. Perhaps this is a means to draw closer to Him through dua, desperation, and need, and not through anything that is sinful.
I would like you to go through the valuable answers and links below. You will receive guidance and direction in sha Allah.
- Why Does Islam Not Allow Boyfriends and Girlfriends?
- Black Magic Archives
- Purification of the Heart for Youth: Diseases of the Heart and Their Cure. [Lecture Series]
- The Path of Muhammad: Birgivi’s Manual of Taqwa Explained. [Lecture Series]
- Purification of the Heart by Hamza Yusuf
- Istikhara, The Prayer of Seeking Guidance: The Ultimate Guide – A Reader
- How Does One Perform The Prayer Of Need (Salat al-Haja)?
- Prayer of Repentance: Salat al-Tawba
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I pray this helps with your question.
[Mawlana] Ilyas Patel
Checked and Approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani
Mawlana Ilyas Patel is a traditionally trained scholar who has studied in the UK, India, Pakistan, Syria, Jordan, and Turkey. He started his early education in the UK. He went on to complete the hifz of the Quran in India, then enrolled in an Islamic seminary in the UK, where he studied the secular and ‘Aalimiyya sciences. He then traveled to Karachi, Pakistan. He has been an Imam in Rep of Ireland for several years. He has taught hifz of the Quran, Tajwid, Fiqh, and many other Islamic sciences to children and adults onsite and online extensively in the UK and Ireland. He taught at a local Islamic seminary for 12 years in the UK, where he was a librarian and a teacher of Islamic sciences. He currently resides in the UK with his wife. His interest is a love of books and gardening.