Entries by sufyan

Praying Fajr Twice, and Combining Intentions

Answered by Shaykh Faraz A. Khan Question: I have been helping my mother to learn how to pray and she now feels comfortable to be led in prayer by myself (i.e. just her and myself together) but at this stage she is still learning and cannot pray alone without being led. I have recently begun […]

Dealing With Emotional Abuse from Parents

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: What is the guidance that Islam gives for a child suffering emotional abuse by their mother. How should one go about rectifying the feelings of insecurity, self pity and worthlessness as a result of being raised with constant emotional abuse. Answer: In the Name of Allah, the Gracious, the […]

My Friend of the Same Gender Has Feelings for Me

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: Assalaam alaikum, I’m a practicing Muslimah, and I have a friend, a practicing Muslimah, who seems to be in love with me. What can I do about this? Answer: In the Name of God, the Gracious, the Merciful Dear Sister, Assalamu alaikum. Thank you for your question. Sadly, Satan–and […]

I Need Help Finding a Wali

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: Bismillah arahman araheem I am a convert to Islam, and would like to get married soon.  Like many converts, I do not have a wali.  I realize how valuable this role can be, and would like to have an imam or other pious/learned man serve as mine while I […]

Do I Have to Get Married?

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: Asalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakahtu. I have been Muslim for eight years now. Before that, I had two failed marriages. As the advice from all Islamic guidance is to marry if able I indeed had nikkah four years ago which ended in a bad divorce a year later. I […]

Performing Tayammum if Paralyzed

Answered by Shaykh Faraz A. Khan Question: My mum recently had a stroke and is incapacitated in bed. Her left side is paralyzed. She is in no way capable of performing wudhu and I gather that she is allowed to perform tayammum instead. Would a person be exempt from performing wudhu (and hence qualify for […]

Is My Destiny to Remain Unmarried and Care for My Parents?

Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: As Salaamu Alaykum Warahmatullah, I hope this question finds you in good health. Can you please give some advice on finding a suitable spouse. I am a Muslim lady in my 30’s who has had no luck whatsoever at finding a suitor. Prospective suitors have come and gone but […]