Entries by sufyan

How Can a Single Mother Raise a Muslim Son?

Answered by Ustadha Shireen Ahmed Question: Assalam alaykum, I am a single mother raising a Muslim son who is nearing the age of puberty. Without a man to model the religion for him and take him to be among the men, how can I best encourage his development of religion and chivalrous character? Answer: Wa […]

Does a Picture of a Deity on a Bag Invalidate One’s Faith?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I bought my son a school bag. It has a drawing of a fictional superhero deity on comic books called Thor. If my son uses this bag would that invalidate our Islam? Answer: Wa’alaykum assalam. Thank you for writing in. I pray this finds you in the […]

How Do I Deal With an Unhappy Marriage?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum A few years ago I got married to someone who was already a father. During these years we lived together only for 6 months. Now I don’t have any understanding with him. I don’t like to see his face or listen to his voice. I don’t want […]

Can Men and Women Pray Together?

Answered by Ustadh Salman Younas Question: Assalam aleykum I believe that a prayer in which men and women are mixed is forbidden. Is it true? Answer: assalamu alaykum If by the term “mixing” you mean men and women standing side-by-side in prayer then the general rule is that this would not permitted. However, if you […]

I Have an Income but I Never Possess the Nisab. Should I Pay Zakat?

Answered by Ustadh Salman Younas Question: Assalam aleykum I have learned that nisab is the amount of wealth that one has kept for one lunar year. What do you do if you never have that? Is one then exempt from paying zakat? Answer: assalamu alaykum In order for zakat to be obligatory upon an individual, […]

I Have Cursed at My Son. Am I Divorced?

Answered by Shaykh Abdurragmaan Khan Question: Assalam alaykum, I got a little angry against my son and all of the sudden I uttered a word in the punjabi language: “haraam da” which means “bastard”. And ever since it happend I have been getting misgivings of “kufr” and “divorce”. Does this constitute disbelief or divorce? Answer: […]

How to Remove Doubts About My Disbelief?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I know that my intentionally missed prayers from the past do not make me a disbeliever. However, I can’t shake this feeling. Also, my male cousin combined the prayer with a popular song at the time which made me laugh. Also my female cousin made a comment […]