Anse Tamara Grey on Nisf Sha‘ban: For Women, by Women
In this podcast, Shaykha Anse Tamara Grey of Rabata, speaks about Nisf Shaban; the fifteenth day of the Islamic month of Sha‘ban. Her talk is particularly catered to women.
Since there is much confusion about what has been narrated about Nisf Sha‘ban, she begins by reciting the various hadiths that clarify our understanding about it. From the hadith of our lady Aisha, Allah be pleased with her, when she asked the Prophet why he offered extra worship, to the scholar Imam al Subki, who concluded that this night atones for the sins committed during the year, she brings many references and proofs.
All who seek are forgiven this night, except a few people, including those who are arrogant, have hate in their heart, or are not good to their parents.
How to Free Ourselves
Shaykha Anse empowers us by taking us through the description of the people who are not forgiven on this night. The first two are fairly unusual; those who are nonbelievers, or who addicted to alcohol (and perhaps the longing for this night will be a means for addicts to break the habit).
The rest, however, are shockingly common. Let’s look at the descriptions, and ask ourselves some questions:
The ones who incite rancor. Are we bringing people together, or are we causing problems?
The one who severs kinship bonds. Are we cutting our relatives off, or are we reaching out to them? It is important to remember that it is possible to keep a form of connection, while maintaining appropriate boundaries.
The one who drags their clothing (meaning people who looks at others with arrogance based on class or material). We can make an effort to wear simpler clothing, that doesn’t show the shape of our bodies.
The one who has hurt their parents. When your parents think of you, are they frustrated, or are they happy?
In addition, Shaykha Tamara offers some practical advice about how to make this night special for yourself and your family.
With thanks to Rabata, our content partner.
