Entries by Suleyman Geddes

Sudden Fear of Dying

Question: Suddenly I got thinking that I will die tomorrow and I can’t stop crying. I prayed two Rakats, but I only fell asleep after hearing a dua and a surah. Today I feel the same and I’m confused whether it is from Allah or the Shaytan. Answer: Assalamu alaykum Sister, Thank you for your […]

Is It Permissible to Disown an Actively Homosexual Family Member?

Question: Is it permissible to disown an actively homosexual family member? Answer: Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,Dear questioner, May Allah guide me, you, and all of our family members. It is impermissible to cut family ties with any family member unless they are actively harming someone. Asma the daughter of Abu Bakr asked […]

With Regards to Seclusion, Is It Right to Ride With the Opposite Gender in a Car?

Question: With regards to khalwa, is it okay to ride with the opposite gender in a car? Not as in chauffeuring but riding with them in the front seat because you know them and you are going to a common destination? Answer: Assalamu alaykum The definition of seclusion (khalwa) that jurists provided was for a […]

In What Order Should One Study the Shafii Madhab, and Which Books of Fiqh Should One Study?

Question: In what order should one study the Shafii madhab, and which books of fiqh should one study? Answer: Wa alaykum assalamu wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Dear questioner, Thank you very much for your poignant question. What is generally observed across the Shafii world is that they study Matn Abi Shuja, Fath al Muin, and then […]

I Am a Convert and Live With My Adopted Parents. What Are My Obligations to Them?

Question: I am a convert and live with my adopted parents. What are my obligations to them, and can I take off my hijab at home? Answer: Wa alaykum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Dear questioner, The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said, ‘I and he who takes in an orphan are like […]