Is It Wrong to Feel Deeply Attached to a Fictional Character?
Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani
Question
I am emotionally attached to Pompompurin, a children’s character. I want to know whether such characters are permissible and whether my attachment to this character is spiritually harmful or discouraged.
I want my heart attached only to Allah Most High, and I worry this may be hurting my faith. Could these concerns themselves be waswasa?
Answer
Your concern for your heart is itself a beautiful sign. It is the mark of someone whose faith is alive and seeking. May Allah bless you and grant you an increase in this.
Cultivate this concern.
Allah Most High does not ask you to empty your heart of all warmth and delight. Rather, He asks you to fill it with what is highest.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “A man is upon the religion of his close friends, so let each of you look at whom he takes as a close friend (khalil).” [Abu Dawud, 4833; Tirmidhi, 2378]
And Allah Most High says: “And keep yourself patiently with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance.” [Quran 18:28]
The Importance of Good Company
These two texts point to the same remedy: your close friends shape your heart more than almost anything else.
Seek out a mosque, a circle of Quran, a class in Islamic knowledge, a gathering of remembrance (dhikr). When you sit with people whose hearts are turned toward Allah, your own heart turns there naturally.
Good company is not a supplement to the spiritual life; it is its backbone.
Imam Ghazali (Allah have mercy on him) teaches in the Ihya Ulum al-Din that the heart takes on the color of the company it keeps, just as iron sharpens iron.
Imam Murtada al-Zabidi (Allah have mercy on him), commenting on this in his Ithaf al-Sada al-Muttaqin at length, affirms that the surest way to elevate the heart is not to suppress its capacity for affection but to redirect it toward those people and practices that draw it closer to Allah Most High. [Zabidi, Ithaf al-Sada al-Muttaqin, Kitab Riyada al-Nafs]
Rest and Relaxation are Permitted
Sayyiduna Ali ibn Abi Talib (Allah be pleased with him) is reported to have said: “Give these hearts a rest, and seek for them the rare gifts of wisdom, for hearts grow weary as bodies grow weary.”
A fondness for a gentle, harmless character is not what strips a heart of its connection to Allah. Heedlessness is. The two are not the same.
Are These Concerns Waswasa?
Your instinct that these concerns may be misgivings (waswasa) is probably right.
The sign of waswasa is that engagement with the doubt increases the doubt rather than resolving it. You named that possibility yourself, which is a sign of clarity, not confusion.
The way of the scholars is: do not argue with waswasa; turn your attention elsewhere. In this case, that elsewhere is exactly what Quran 18:28 points to: the people of remembrance, morning and evening.
Fill the Heart, and It Will Find Its Own Way
Busy your heart through the Quran, through regular dhikr, through seeking knowledge, and above all through finding and keeping good company at the mosque or in a circle of learning.
A heart that is actively filled with what is high does not stay attached to what is low out of need.
Your concern for where your heart is attached is itself a sign that it is already oriented in the right direction. Trust that, and act on it.
And Allah knows best.
[Shaykh] Faraz Rabbani
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