How Is an Attempted Murder of Your Child Viewed in Islam?
Answered by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick
Question
In Islam, how is an attempted murder viewed when a mother tries to harm her child, but the child survives?
Answer
Initial Response:
In Islam, attempting to murder another person, especially one’s own child, is a grave sin and a severe transgression against Allah (Most High) and humanity. While the crime of murder itself has specific worldly and hereafter-related consequences, an attempt that does not result in death remains a significant sin that requires accountability in both this life and the next.
Expanded Explanation:
The sanctity of life is paramount in Islam. Allah (Most High) states in the Quran:
“Whoever kills a soul unless for a soul or corruption [done] in the land—it is as if he had slain mankind entirely. And whoever saves one—it is as if he had saved mankind entirely.” [Quran, 5:32]
The attempt to harm a child, who is helpless and entrusted by Allah (Most High) to their parents, magnifies the sin due to the breach of the trust inherent in parenthood. Scholars explain that while attempted murder does not carry the same legal punishment (qisas or retribution) as murder itself, it is nonetheless a major sin.
Moreover, the action reflects severe moral corruption, a betrayal of natural parental mercy, and an affront to the divine trust Allah (Most High) places upon parents to care for their children. The Quran emphasizes the bond and responsibility parents have toward their children, stating:
“Do not kill your children out of fear of poverty; We provide for them and for you. Surely killing them is a heinous sin.” [Quran, 17:31]
Attempted harm or murder violates this divine directive, warranting repentance (tawba) and legal accountability. Ibn Hajar al-Haytami lists attempted murder as a major sin in his seminal work al-Zawajir ‘an Iqtiraf al-Kaba’ir, emphasizing its heinous nature.
Actionable Guidance
For the Mother
She must immediately repent (make sincere tawba), seek forgiveness from Allah (Most High), and strive to repair her relationship with her child. She should consult with knowledgeable scholars or counselors to understand the gravity of her actions and work toward rectifying her state.
For the Family
They should ensure the child’s safety and consider involving trusted community leaders or professionals to address the underlying issues leading to such behavior.
For the Community
It is vital to provide support systems for distressed families, focusing on mental health, spiritual growth, and parental education.
Legal Aspect
In a Sharia-governed system, the attempted crime would be investigated, and appropriate disciplinary measures (ta‘zir) may be imposed to deter similar actions and bring justice.
Ultimately, the matter underscores the need for spiritual renewal, accountability, and the support of divine mercy to guide the family toward healing. Allah knows best.
[Shaykh] Irshaad Sedick
Checked and Approved by Shaykh Mohammad Abu Bakr Badhib
Shaykh Irshaad Sedick was raised in South Africa in a traditional Muslim family. He graduated from Dar al-Ulum al-Arabiyyah al-Islamiyyah in Strand, Western Cape, under the guidance of the late world-renowned scholar Shaykh Taha Karaan.
Shaykh Irshaad received Ijaza from many luminaries of the Islamic world, including Shaykh Taha Karaan, Mawlana Yusuf Karaan, and Mawlana Abdul Hafeez Makki, among others.
He is the author of the text “The Musnad of Ahmad ibn Hanbal: A Hujjah or not?” He has served as the Director of the Discover Islam Centre and Al Jeem Foundation. For the last five years till present, he has served as the Khatib of Masjid Ar-Rashideen, Mowbray, Cape Town.
Shaykh Irshaad has thirteen years of teaching experience at some of the leading Islamic institutes in Cape Town). He is currently building an Islamic online learning and media platform called ‘Isnad Academy’ and has completed his Master’s degree in the study of Islam at the University of Johannesburg. He has a keen interest in healthy living and fitness.