Can My Wife Wear a Specific Type of Clothing to Please and Satisfy Me?
Answered by Mawlana Ilyas Patel
Question
I have some questions about intimacy.
Q1: I want my wife to wear transparent, thongs, G string, miniskirt, or crop top erotic clothes at night time for my pleasure. Is it permissible for her to dress in these types of clothing?
Q2: If after teasing, pleasing, and playing with my wife in those clothes, can she sleep in those clothes so I can touch her or see her overnight?
Q3: My wife undresses at night every day in bed. Is looking at her nude encouraging things while she sleeps or wakes?
Q4: Can we bathe each other while nude or in this underwear, touching her body parts and kissing, fondling her while bathing? Is it this encouraged thing to do or not?
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate
I pray you are in good faith and health.
All of your specific questions and all the things you mentioned are permissible—with mutual consent. However, while looking at each other’s private parts is permissible without dislike, it is from Prophetic proper manners—as understood from the hadith of ‘Aisha (Allah be pleased with her) to avoid doing so.
I would like you to go through the valuable answers and links below. You will receive guidance and direction in sha Allah.
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- Which Sexual Practices Are Permissible in Islam? (seekersguidance.org)
- Intimacy Archives – SeekersGuidance
- Sexual Acts Archives – SeekersGuidance
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I pray this helps answer your question.
Wassalam,
[Mawlana] Ilyas Patel
Checked and Approved by Shaykh Abdul-Rahim Reasat
Mawlana Ilyas Patel is a traditionally-trained scholar who has studied in the UK, India, Pakistan, Syria, Jordan, and Turkey. He started his early education in the UK. He went on to complete the hifz of the Quran in India, then enrolled in an Islamic seminary in the UK, where he studied the secular and ‘Aalimiyya sciences. He then traveled to Karachi, Pakistan. He has been an Imam in Rep of Ireland for several years. He has taught hifz of the Quran, Tajwid, Fiqh, and many other Islamic sciences to children and adults onsite and online extensively in the UK and Ireland. He taught at a local Islamic seminary for 12 years in the UK, where he was a librarian and a teacher of Islamic sciences. He currently resides in the UK with his wife. His interest is a love of books and gardening.
