Is Complimenting or Praising Others Permissible in Islam, and To What Extent?

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

Question

Is it permissible to compliment or encourage others—for example, by saying they look nice or did a good job—if it is done moderately and sincerely, without exaggeration or causing arrogance?

Answer

It is permissible–and sometimes praiseworthy–to offer sincere and positive compliments.

This should be done truthfully and without exaggeration; and in ways that will not harm the one praised (such as causing them to become proud or conceited.)

It is only this kind of untruthful, exaggerated, or harmful praise that is disliked according to Prophetic teachings.

Allah Most High says, “Speak good to people.” [Quran, 2:83]

The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should say the good or remain silent.” [Bukhari; Muslim]

What About the Prophetic Warning Against Excessive Praise?

The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “If you see those who praise excessively, throw dust in their faces.” [Muslim]

This is a stern discouragement–and not meant literally–against excessive, untrue, or harmful praise. [Qari, Mirqat al-Mafatih Sharh Mishkat al-Masabih; Ayni and others]

The scholars suggest that it is better to praise the good action–rather than the person–and to strive to do it in a manner that cultivates gratitude to Allah, and encourages them to be consistent in such good works.

One way is to pair compliments with du‘a, such as: “Masha’Allah, that was well done—may Allah bless you.”

And Allah knows best.

And Allah is the giver of success and facilitation.
[Shaykh] Faraz Rabbani

Shaykh Faraz Rabbani is a recognized specialist scholar in the Islamic sciences, having studied under leading scholars from around the world. He is the Founder and Executive Director of SeekersGuidance.

Shaykh Faraz stands as a distinguished figure in Islamic scholarship. His journey in seeking knowledge is marked by dedication and depth. He spent ten years studying under some of the most revered scholars of our times. His initial studies took place in Damascus. He then continued in Amman, Jordan.

In Damascus, he was privileged to learn from the late Shaykh Adib al-Kallas. Shaykh Adib al-Kallas was renowned as the foremost theologian of his time. Shaykh Faraz also studied under Shaykh Hassan al-Hindi in Damascus. Shaykh Hassan is recognized as one of the leading Hanafi jurists of our era.

Upon completing his studies, Shaykh Faraz returned to Canada in 2007. His return marked a new chapter in his service to the community. He founded SeekersGuidance. The organization reflects his commitment to spreading Islamic knowledge. It aims to be reliable, relevant, inspiring, and accessible. This mission addresses both online and on-the-ground needs.

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