Can I Make Dua for Better Facial Features or Is It Transgression?
Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad
Question
Is it permissible to make dua for more balanced facial features, like evenly spaced eyes or a different nose shape, or is this a form of transgression?
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Merciful and Compassionate.
Thank you for your question. It is permissible to ask Allah for beauty, health, and well-being, and it is not considered transgression, but one must not be dissatisfied with Allah’s decree.
Appreciating Allah’s Blessings
The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said: “Whoever among you wakes up physically healthy, feeling safe and secure within himself, with food for the day, it is as if he acquired the whole world.” [Ibn Maja]
I urge you to look at yourself and your blessings from the above lens. Be grateful and content for what Allah Most High has given you. Trust that Allah has and will provide you with what is best for you and that He makes no mistakes when he fashions someone.
The Beauty of Character
Focus on inner beauty as the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) did and make this prophetic du`a when you look in the mirror:
اللّهُمَّ كَما أحْسَنْتَ خَلْقِي فَحَسِّنْ خُلُقي
“O Allah, just as You have made my external appearance beautiful, make my character beautiful as well.” [Ahmad]
Avoid Harmful Comparisons
I urge you to reduce your screen time to control this train of thought that you are having about your looks. Do not compare yourself to the cosmetically surgically altered, botox-injecting, air-brushed, makeup-caked, pill-taking celebrities that you see on TV. Anything that you see on TV is fake, or excessively done-up, and makes us forget that the inward is what Allah will ask you about on the Day of Resurrection. Rather, ask Allah to bring nur (light) to your face.
The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) said, “Allah does not look at your figures nor at your attire but He looks at your hearts and accomplishments.” [Muslim]
And Allah knows best.
[Ustadha] Shazia Ahmad
Checked and Approved by Shaykh Irshaad Sedick
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Ustadha Shazia Ahmad lived in Damascus, Syria, for two years, where she studied ‘aqida, fiqh, tajweed, tafsir, and Arabic. She then attended the University of Texas at Austin, where she completed her Master’s in Arabic. Afterward, she moved to Amman, Jordan, where she studied fiqh, Arabic, and other sciences. She later moved back to Mississauga, Canada, where she lives with her family.