Is Saying “I Leave You” Considered an Indirect Divorce Statement?

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani

Question

In the Hanafi school, if a husband says “I leave you” or its equivalent in a non-divorce context (such as ending a phone call), with no intention of divorce, does this count as a valid divorce?

Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate.

May Allah keep you in well-being and faith.

In this situation, no divorce occurs as per the Hanafi school.

The phrase “I leave you,” in the language of divorce jurisprudence, is an allusive expression (kinaya), not an explicit one (sarih).

Allusive expressions (kinaya) count as divorce only if such expressions are used for divorce, and the speaker intends divorce by them. [Haskafi, al-Durr al-Muntaqa Sharh al-Multaqa; Ibn Abidin, Radd al-Muhtar].

Reassurance Regarding Your Situation

There is no need for any further action. No expiation is required, and your marriage remains as it was.

It is wise to be careful with words related to marriage in the future.

And Allah knows best.

[Shaykh] Faraz Rabbani

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